7 Dreams Warning You About Your Relationship

When God created us, He saw it fit that we should have partners to live life with. This means that it’s normal if you have a desire for intimacy and companionship. So, why do we have this desire for a partner?

Life would be difficult if we had to face it alone. I’m not saying that we cannot go through life if we don’t have partners, but life is fuller and sweeter when you can share your wins, downs, dreams and vision with someone else. As they always say, no man is an island.

Before going into a relationship with anyone, it is important to ask for God’s guidance. God is our helper; He sees things that we cannot, and we need His protection. As you are bringing someone into your life, remember that there is the physical and spiritual realm involved. God wouldn’t want you to be harmed along the way.

When you are in a relationship and God wants to send you a message, He usually communicates through dreams. Be it a good thing or a bad one, He will make sure that you get the message that He is sending to you.

That is why I encourage you to join the Dreams Decoded course if you haven’t already. It will help you interpret your own dreams and understand dream symbols, signs and more!

Let us look at the bad dreams that come as a warning about your relationship. It’s important that when you get these dreams, you try to remember all the details as you don’t want to miss the message that is being sent to you.

  1. Seeing yourself naked in a dream –

No one wants to be seen naked. Everyone tries to cover up their nakedness because of what this represents. Seeing yourself or your partner naked is a bad sign. This means that the enemy wants to shame you. You might be confident that this relationship will end in marriage, but the enemy wants to bring shame by making sure the relationship doesn’t work out.

I want you to always remember that nakedness in a dream should bring concern to you. This concern should push you into constant prayer and fasting, because some things cannot go without doing so.

2. Fruits Switched from Ripe to Raw –

Fruits are a symbol of sweetness, health and vitality for the body. That is why most people enjoy ripe fruit rather than one that isn’t ready yet.

When you dream of a fresh and ripe basket of mangoes for example, and then see it swapped with an unripe bunch, what does this mean?

It symbolises a swap of your blessing. Instead of enjoying your harvest, you are delayed. Unripe fruit shows unreadiness or having to wait for something. Waiting isn’t always a bad thing, but in this case, your blessing was ready and got stolen from you.   

In your relationship, this could signify either a counterfeit or just the wrong person completely. Pray about this and receive understanding from God.

3. Seeing Fire or a House Burning –

This is directly talking about your life. When fire burns something, it destroys it. That object is burnt and reduced to nothing. This means that the enemy wants to destroy that relationship.

Notice how the relationship develops after having such a dream. Most times, you will start having problems that were not there before.

God is a different fire; He consumes all the spears and arrows that are directed at you.  This is according to His Word in Hebrews 12:29. So, do not fear but trust in the Lord, He will rescue you!

4. Missing Things –

In a dream you see yourself missing the way, a wedding or even a bus that takes you somewhere important. If you look back to that dream, you need to ask yourself what made you miss your way in the first place. Is it maybe distraction or people steering you the wrong way?

In the context of a relationship, missing your way could mean that the person you are with isn’t the one for you. Instead, you have missed the right turn and now delayed in this aspect. What is meant for you is passing you by and what you are holding on to is not what is yours.

5. Spirit Spouse –

This is a type of dream experienced by many people. There are spirits that are sent specifically to destroy the marital destiny of Christians. This spirit is sent to give you stagnation in everything that concerns your marriage.

Why you shouldn’t ignore dreaming of sex in a dream, or marriage to an unknown person is because of the jealousy such a spirit possesses. It will cause you to meet the wrong people, constantly get rejected or if you do end up in marriage, it’s a terrible one.

6. Dream about a Break-up –

The enemy is working hard to separate you and your partner. He knows that this is a good relationship, and he doesn’t approve it. That is why when something is from God, the enemy will fight it until it’s no more. Keep pushing and take heed to such a dream. It’s a warning from God!

  • Having strange people appear in your dreams –

If you are in a relationship and you dream about your partner’s relatives or people that you don’t know, it is a warning from God. You might be in a relationship with this person and there is someone that is not happy.  Usually, this person is eyeing your partner for themselves. Sometimes it’s relatives who wish him to be with someone else.

Having looked at these dreams and their meanings, what then do you do when they visit you? You must take action because God has spoken, and you have heard His voice. Embark on a prayer journey that will help you get your deliverance, by the grace of God.

                                                         Effective Ways to Deal with Bad Dreams

While you know some warning signs about your relationship, you need to also know how to effectively cancel any plans of the enemy.

Some ways this can be done is by canceling the dream as soon as you wake up. Don’t wait until the evening or next day. It’s important that you break any spirit immediately, by the power of God!

Next, immense yourself in prayer according to scripture.

Daniel 2:22 reminds that “it is He who reveals the profound and hidden things; He knows what is in the darkness, and the light dwells with Him.”

Ask the Lord to speak and confirm this relationship to you. As much as God speaks, it’s also important to listen and take action.

I pray that God sends forth His military angels to guard and protect you, in Jesus’ name!

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